Getoutgoing.

One small side quest a day. Quest one is eye contact and a smile. Thirty quests later, you’re the person who talks to anyone.

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Today’s Side Quest

Thank whoever serves you today by name.

~2 min Boldness 2

The Outgoing Today screen: an 11-day streak, the road of quests, and today's side quest card reading “When someone asks how you are, answer with one true thing.”

Nobody becomes outgoing by accident. Every hi, every held door, every tiny brave thing is intentional.

How it works

One quest. Five minutes.
Out in the real world.

Today screen with the quest “When someone asks how you are, answer with one true thing” and a Start button
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Open the app. One quest is waiting.

Every day there's one side quest on the road, small enough to do on the way to coffee. Never a list to browse, never homework.

Challenge screen showing Quest 12 of 30 and the Game Plan: Look For, Say
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Read the game plan, then go do it.

Where to find it, the exact words, what usually comes back, and what to do if it lands flat. If your mind goes blank, it's all here.

The check-in after a quest: “How hard was that?” with 7, Hard, selected on a ten-step meter and a Stamp It button
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Stamp it.

How hard was that? One to ten. Seven and up means it took courage, and the quest goes in your log for good.

Everyone finds this hard at first. The research says it passes.

People enjoy talking to strangers more than they predict — and are liked more than they guess.

Epley & Schroeder, 2014; Boothby et al., 2018

When people were sent to talk to strangers, 87% of first approaches went fine.

Sandstrom & Boothby, 2022

Every time it's been measured, a compliment lands better than the giver expected.

Zhao & Epley, 2021

Your log

Proof of the person you’re becoming.

  • Every quest adds Boldness — its number is what it's worth, and it never goes down.
  • Levels climb the daylight arc, from First Light to Midsummer.
  • The Challenge Log keeps every quest, every courage stamp and every note. For good.
The You tab: Level 5, Sunrise, 26 Boldness, 12 side quests completed, a 12-day streak
The Challenge Log: quests 9 to 12 with courage stamps out of ten and a note that reads “Told a guy his jacket was great. Kept walking. Felt like a superhero.”

Your first quest is smaller than you think.

Free to start on iPhone and Android. No account, no card, no lectures. Just today’s side quest and a game plan.

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